How to Speak to a College Coach

The expression “You never get a second chance to make a first impression” is never more prevalent than when you introduce yourself to a college coach. From the second they see you, they are eyeballing you up and down to see what you are made of from the bottom of your feet to the top of head. You remember that scene in the movie Madagascar (come on, don’t act tough, you know you have watched it) when the lion sees the zebra as just a giant steak?
Welcome to your world of college recruiting. Side note: you aren’t the lion. 
Don’t blame the coaches, I would do the same thing. Their job/pay is based on how they recruit and how well those that they recruited do within their program. If you turn off a coach right off the bat, it is hard to get back into their graces. Here is how to start off on the right foot……
  1. Stand tall. In football, size matters. Plain and simple. When you are about to approach a coach, breathe in. It makes you look taller. Careful, there is a fine line between breathing in to look a tad taller and breathing in and looking like a complete idiot that is trying too hard. Example: look at 99% of the kids in a high school football program and their head shot. You know how they are leaning back and trying to make their neck look fat and thicker? Really, really lame since everyone at the upper levels knows that trick and mocks it.
  2. Look the coach DIRECTLY in their eyes. I mean directly. Almost piercing. Look right through him as though you are in no way intimidated by them. They will respect you for your confidence.
  3. Shake it to break it. A hand shake is one of the things that will immediately separate you from the pack. Coaches are former football players and football players are usually strong. They will not have a weak grip and will judge someone who does. Open your paw, reach out and engulf their hand. Hold it until he relinquishes and keep your eyes on his eyes the entire time. Don’t look down to where it looks like you are surprised you have such a great hand shake. Do the exact same thing to the women you meet on your trips, but just hold off on the pressure a tad. No need to crush their hand but you also don’t want to do the finger grab thing. You aren’t on the set of the Titanic so knock off the pomp and circumstance.
  4. Little on the thin side? Wear thermals on the top and bottom. You won’t look like you have toothpicks for legs and you will look thick throughout your whole frame.
  5. Wear appropriate clothing. A collared shirt is always acceptable. Don’t look sloppy. If you are going for the rahah angle, wear the appropriate school’s gear. For instance, and this may seem like a no-brainer, but, unfortunately it is not, if you are going to visit say Alabama, don’t wear a Auburn sweatshirt. That is just ignorant and shows no respect for the coach or the school.
  6. Don’t fidget. After you gave a good shake and you are standing tall, keep your paws to your side or on your hips. Do not put them in your pockets or pick at your hands. In pockets, conveys you are hiding something and picking is a distraction and will take the coach’s attention away from your whole body and only to your nervous habit. 
  7. Speak slowly. I know you are nervous. They know you are nervous. When someone is nervous, they tend to speak a lot quicker. Slow down and speak clearly. For instance, when you tell them your name and where you are from you need to realize that is something you have said a zillion times and almost have a pattern. They wont know the pattern or be familiar with your distinct name and hometown. To avoid a back and forth game of “huh” and “what” just slow down.

There you go. You are now prepared to speak to a college coach. Now, get focused on your grades, your body and your form to make your dream of getting to the next level a reality. 

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Comments

  1. Jamie Eads says

    Great tips for when these guys are also interviewing for jobs later on! Great job Rubio!

  2. Thank you very much. I hope it comes in handy with all my Long Snappers throughout their lives.

  3. Great points Rubio.

    I would also add that they treat everyone they meet on a recruiting trip with respect.

    (Though they shouldn’t have to be told this, they should treat everyone respectfully all the time!)

    You can be Joe All-American with the coaching staff, but if you are a jerk with the hostesses, equipment managers, athletic trainers, secretaries, etc, you can be very sure that the coaches will know all about it by the end of the day.

    And here’s the painful truth – these coaches deal with a-hole bluechip “skill” players all the time. They are going to have almost zero tolerance for a long snapper who is an a-hole during the recruiting process.

  4. Excellent point Geoff. All must realize that a football program is a family and that everyone knows everyone and they all speak in one way or another. ANYONE telling a head coach you are a bad seed is not a good thing.

    So true about zero tolerance for Long Snappers. It is usually a position they are salty they have to recruit and will not tolerate any attitudes, especially from someone they are upset about recruiting in the first place.

  5. Melise Etheridge says

    Excellent article, Rubio. Parents can say this a hundred times – you only have to say it once. Thanks.

  6. Thanks Melise. I hope it hits home for them. Print it out and put it on the ‘fridge. I know they will see it then:)